uhmbah@lemmy.ca to Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.worldEnglish · edit-29 months agoAdult daughter. Should I disown her!?lemmy.caimagemessage-square241fedilinkarrow-up1504arrow-down142file-text
arrow-up1462arrow-down1imageAdult daughter. Should I disown her!?lemmy.cauhmbah@lemmy.ca to Mildly Infuriating@lemmy.worldEnglish · edit-29 months agomessage-square241fedilinkfile-text
minus-squareinfinitevalence@discuss.onlinelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up178arrow-down3·9 months agoIt’s your fault, accept the shame and teach her.
minus-squareScrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up72arrow-down6·9 months agoI wouldn’t put it that bluntly… but yeah. OP you can’t shame your child for not knowing something you should have taught her. Teach her, kindly, explaining why things are done a specific way. Kindly.
minus-squarearin@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·9 months agoI try to help my gf but she gets insanely annoyed at me
minus-squareDragonTypeWyvern@literature.cafelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·9 months agoTry explaining it very slowly while raising your eyebrows and carefully enunciating.
minus-squarethe_third@feddit.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11·9 months agoAlso, bring a Flipchart and Crayons, I’ve found that helps a lot.
minus-squareddh@lemmy.sdf.orglinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up4·9 months agoBut don’t be condescending (that means talking down to people)
minus-squarepdxfed@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·9 months ago“(that means talking down to people)” Thanks for simplifying that big word condescension for us…🤔
minus-squaredugmeup@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up17arrow-down1·9 months agoYou can bring a horse to water but can’t make it drink
minus-squarertxn@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10arrow-down2·9 months agoBut don’t whip the horse for not immediately finding the water on its own.
minus-squarewreckedcarzz@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up11arrow-down2·9 months ago It’s your fault, time for the late-term abortion ftfy
minus-squarePossibly linux@lemmy.ziplinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up5·9 months agoJust to be clear it is called a post birth abortion and its really only ethical if they are 10 or less
minus-squareSinningStromgald@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up6·9 months agoTo the shame corner with them!
minus-squareMonkderZweite@feddit.chlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·edit-29 months agoThey don’t learn some things, even if you teach them a 100 times.
minus-squarekattenluik@feddit.nllinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·9 months agoThen you’re probably teaching wrong.
It’s your fault, accept the shame and teach her.
I wouldn’t put it that bluntly… but yeah. OP you can’t shame your child for not knowing something you should have taught her. Teach her, kindly, explaining why things are done a specific way.
Kindly.
I try to help my gf but she gets insanely annoyed at me
Try explaining it very slowly while raising your eyebrows and carefully enunciating.
Also, bring a Flipchart and Crayons, I’ve found that helps a lot.
But don’t be condescending (that means talking down to people)
“(that means talking down to people)”
Thanks for simplifying that big word condescension for us…🤔
You can bring a horse to water but can’t make it drink
But don’t whip the horse for not immediately finding the water on its own.
Shame 🔔🔔🔔
ftfy
Just to be clear it is called a post birth abortion and its really only ethical if they are 10 or less
To the shame corner with them!
They don’t learn some things, even if you teach them a 100 times.
Then you’re probably teaching wrong.